A Great Relationship is About Two Things
Appreciating The Similarities & Respecting The Differences
Its really very deep thought which i got yesterday night. that really very difficult to think that if someone has a similar thought process,that we are thinking for particular things,Its really create problems. Now the thing is,we just forget everything when we are in thought process, and that thought process will be relates to our life,for our friend life, for our friend circle,our family, career, love anything. Same thing happen with our that loved one who is thinking about not all the same things but approximate same, and when that thoughts come with same platform at a same time create problems. ya that's really problematic because the reason is, when we are thinking for someone. we think on our way, On our thoughts we always think that it will be good for our loved ones and when we share it..its like that boom.. hahahaha that happens really, its has happen because I faced that moments many time so for that i’m damn sure...Now the main thing, We think good for our loved ones but not on her/his way, we think on our way that's create a problem... because what she/he wants we have to understand, just for her/his happiness, we will ready to do anything then why don’t we try to think on her/his way. Just once then i am sure, you can realize that why didn't you done this before. Many times i saw and also did, that we do anything for our loved one, we plans and haven’t inform to her/his and what will happen there are two results,
first one...if whatever we did with keeping someone in our thought,like what her/his make happy. That will really make happy that someone because reason is only that whatever we did with keeping her/his in our mind.is it? yes it is.
And the second one....Like we did everything perfect but with keeping only your thought that what will make you happy not what will that someone want. and here the difference creates.
Similarities belongs not only our thoughts with also our actions, most of time our similar actions also create problems but most of time we ignore that but after a sometime when we lose the things then we realize that... but till that time we have been late.
Now In My way..
Vo beete huye palo ki yaado ko samet kar
chal pade h unki tanhaiyo ko lapet kar.
Bikhare huye yaado ke asiyane ko sahej kar
Apni hi galiyo ko yu begana bol kar
Chal pade hai unki muskurahat ko yu apna bana kar
Mai vo nadiya jo us samundar se mil kar
laut Aaya hu us samunder tak pyasa pahuch kar
Chal pade hai unki saso me simat kar.
Ye kaash mil jaye hume vo yuhi muskara kar
Bas ek yahi khawab apni saso me saja kar
chal pade hai unki yaado ko basa kar
chal pade hai unki saso ko saja kar.. chal pade hai...chal pade hai